Parenting is full of wonderful moments, but let’s be honest, there are some days that feel like an endless battle of negotiation, repetition, and frustration. Whether it’s a toddler refusing to put their shoes on, a little one ignoring instructions, or more difficult behaviours like biting or hitting, it can be exhausting trying to work out the best way to respond. Every child pushes boundaries at some point (it’s a natural part of growing up) but knowing how to handle those moments with confidence makes all the difference.

That’s where a behaviour consultation with Katie-Jane can help. From around 18 months, children start testing limits as they explore their independence, and this is when setting clear, consistent boundaries becomes so important. Instead of labelling behaviour as ‘naughty’ which can be unhelpful and is not a word that is used, there are simple, practical techniques that encourage cooperation while maintaining a positive, respectful relationship. Getting down to their level, using a calm and clear tone, setting expectations with a simple countdown, and offering controlled choices all help guide behaviour without turning every interaction into a battle.

For some children, frustration can turn into more challenging behaviours like hitting, biting, or pushing. These moments can be overwhelming for parents, especially when nothing seems to work. But with the right tools and approach, these behaviours can be managed and improved in a way that supports both the child and the parent.

Every child is unique, and sometimes a small shift in approach makes a huge difference. Whether it’s tackling tantrums, improving listening skills, or finding new ways to encourage positive behaviour, Katie-Jane is here to help. If you feel stuck or unsure where to start, a behaviour consultation provides tailored, reassuring guidance to help bring more calm and cooperation to your home.